So the wedding is over. After a year of planning, talking engagement, looking at Bridal magazines, throwing the Bachelorette party, talking wedding, making the slideshow, talking reception, buying all the bridesmaid supplies (dress, shoes, a constricting bodyshaper); I now have no idea what will fill the empty moments of my life. Will Laura and I even have anything to talk about anymore? haha Just kidding! But I really cannot beleive it's over. This was not a one-day thing.. It's a day we have been talking about, listening about and thinking about for a year. It's surreal that my dear friend is actually married and I am still so giddy, even though it's now Monday and I am at work, I can't help but talk about the whole weekend and smile at little memories! It was an incredible weekend and a beautiful wedding!
I'll give you the top 10 moments of this weekend:
10. Going to Nine Irish Brother's with Laura's family after the rehersal dinner; laughing hysterically while Uncle Mark made fun of Joe's pink (salmon) shirt! I made the first toast to Dan and Laura: "To Laura and Dan.. to Laura's last night as a single woman and Dan's last night as a happy man!" Uncle Mark's toast began with: "To Dora and Lan.." Haha! It was a funny night!
9. Getting a massage-tan on Saturday morning at A Carribbean Mist. Mmmm! Heavenly! The bottom of the tanning bed is not glass.. it's like a twin bed that vibrates and you turn over 1/2way through! I recommend it. Calling Laura on my way and singing "Happy Wedding Day to You", though I'm sure this was one of the low-points in her day.
8. Drunkenly telling the photographer how amazing his pictures are, while I pet his arm and lean in, probably a little too close. I think (okay, I know) I told him that I wish I could make a verbal slideshow with all the compliments Laura got about her engagement pictures. And I'm sure that at the time, it didn't come out as clearly, but was just as ridiculous. When they left the reception, I made everyone clap and yell, "Monahan! Monahan!"
7. Looking longling at my half-filled glass of champagne so intently that a server came over and whispered that they had a couple more open bottles in the back and that, if I wanted, she would bring them to me. What JOY!! I proceeded to skip the bar and concentrated only on the champagne. In fact, I think I drank about a bottle and a half.
6. Getting to the end of the first bottle of champagne, realizing it was empty and knocking on the door of the kitchen. Without hesitation, the door swung open and my dear waitress (I forget her name) presented me with a full bottle!! God bless her! Later on, I was outside when this same waitress stopped a couple people who were leaving with full glasses of alcohol. She was firm but kind, and when I told her she was doing a good job, she said this was one of the best weddings she's worked and she was cool with it.
5. Standing outside the church, waiting to go in, and getting pictures of our shoes. This was a moment I will never forget. We were in a circle, and I just looked at Laura, knowing that we were minutes away from one of the most beautiful moments of her life. However, just in case, I made sure she knew that if she wanted out, we would cover for her and that I'd go start the car.
4. Starting to walk down the aisle. I kept saying, "Walk slow, walk slow" and when I got to the end I asked Brittany, "Did I walk too slow?" Haha! Seeing Dan waiting for his bride made me cry and I don't think I stopped much until the end of the wedding. Later, at the reception, Dan and I did the "Code Red" dance. We did this daily whenever Dan was over and I was getting out of the shower. I would yell "CODE RED" as I came out of the bathroom and Dan would run for cover or cover his eyes to ensure the safety of us all. The dance was just a lot of movement while covering our eyes. But anyway, it was surreal to turn around when I got to the pew and see the rest of the bridesmaids come down, the choir and all the people who were there for Laura and Dan. Then to see Laura, so pretty come down the aisle.. Wow! Such a sweet moment between those two!
3. Getting my hair done and everyone saying "Oh my gosh! That is so cute!" and "Caitie!! You look so good!" so much that my hairdresser said, "Do you not dress up that often?" And I was like, "Well, I do sometimes! Why?" And she was like, "Well it just seems like everyone is so surprised that you look so good!" Whaaaaat!??!
2. Totally letting loose at the reception. After a long day, I was ready to party and I did. It was a fun night! I had no idea what I would say when I introduced the slideshow.. I think I said something about how Laura made me do it. :) The dinner was great, the music was fun, and just ran around, having a grand old time! I definitely celebrated!
1. Seeing one of my best friends promise, before God, her love and her life to one of the sweetest guys I know. A guy who is perfect for her and who I know will always make her happy. To see my friend be so joyous and look so lovely. And to be there, supporting her and I always have and always will!
Love you, Lo Smith!!!! :) Congrats!